Going to be a long weekend, can’t afford to spend money to be drunk for it, don’t know that that would do any good since it would only bring me down more and I haven’t slept more than 4 hours in a day for over a year so I know I won’t be able to just sleep through it.
A couple people told me to go out, have a few drinks, dance, etc but that won’t work. I can’t dance, never could. Can barely hear with my left ear, can’t hear when there’s alot of background noice unless people talk directly into my right ear and if there’s enough noise, yell into it. The hearing problem is enough to leave me feeling alone an isolated in crowds and that would make me feel worse. Drinking wouldn’t make me feel better, depression and alcohol would be a very bad combination especially if I was already feeling more alone than I do now.
Someone else said get laid. No emotional connection = No physical connection. Anything less would make me feel worse. I don’t know that it would help anyway. Wrapping my arms around a beautiful woman and falling asleep listening to her breath, or having her hold me so I can listen to her heartbeat as I fall asleep would probably help, but it would need to be someone who already held a piece of my heart if not the entire thing. The sex wouldn’t need to happen at all, just the closeness with someone who cares and means something special to me, that woman would be someone I’d be willing to be with like that but I don’t see my phone ringing anytime soon.
Another person said find a good woman. Those are hard to find and the good ones are either taken or aren’t interested in being with anyone. Even if I did find one, my life is a mess and a big part of that mess is because of a woman. Unless she was someone extremely special, she’d have to accept that for a while she couldn’t do more than hold my heart and care for it because it belongs to someone else. Even if she was special enough to change that it would take time. She’d have to care about me enough to be willing to be with me knowing that where my heart is concerned, she might never be more than a caretaker for someone else who’ll never ask for it.
If I had the money for a down payment I could try to get one of the foreclosed homes in my neighborhood and spend my time fixing it up. It wouldn’t solve the problems, they can’t be solved, but at least it would keep me from thinking about the and hoping they resolve themselves. That option is a long way off because fixing my car so it would pass inspection drained my bank account.
Adding to the rest of my troubles if the fact that unless he goes away with his girlfriend, I’ll have to deal with the person whose home I live in being a dick about the fact that I’m still here even though he knows exactly what has kept me from being able to get out including his own refusal to take responsibility for his animal and the injuries and financial losses it caused me. He gets to go live his life, not take care of his animals, not give the dog the attention it needs, not pay for animal care, and I just get a regular attitude about me being here even though it would cost him at least $1000/month to have someone tending to his animals for him and I’m doing it for just the use of a bedroom that he couldn’t rent out for more than $400/month. Maybe I should get a lawyer over the losses his animal caused and give him reason to be a piss ass bastard.
So it looks like I’ll be spending a three day weekend at home with nothing to do but think. Going to be three long days and three very long, lonely nights.